Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Bully Summary Reponse




Bully Summary Response

Claire Jones


Summary
In Lee Hirsch’s documentary, Bully, the rising problem of extreme bullying is highlighted, along with ways to help stop the growing problem. Many victims of bullying usually see no way out, causing them to self-harm, develop an eating disorder, or even worse- commit suicide. Victims find it hard to speak up, ultimately making things worse for themselves; alternatively, school authority figures make excuses for bullies such as: “Kids will be kids.” Or “It’s just a phase.” Bullies are rarely forced to see their harmful wrongdoing. Yet, together, people can make a change in society: everything starts with one- bullying, victimizing, stopping.Though bullying is an enormous problem that will never fully end, people can come together to decrease the amount of bullying that happens today.

Response
In Lee Hirsch’s Bully, the horror of today’s society is exemplified through the victim’s stories: when a child is the least bit different, they will not be accepted. Throughout the movie, the main children- Alex, Tyler, and Kelby- were bullied, and they all had one thing in common: being different. Seventeen year old Alex had never been the cool jock with good grades; his vulnerability put a target on his back, eventually leading him to take his own life. Tyler had a birth defect, making him look a little different than other kids. “The sad thing is… if they just got to know him, and be his friend… he would probably be the most dedicated friend they ever had…” Alex’s mother says it beautifully- these kids are just like us. Sexuality is what makes Kelby different. Does that make her a bad person? No, it does not; but, kids are raised to be scared of anything remotely unlike the norm. If the world can Stand for the Silent, it will be a much better place; we just need to learn to accept each other- no matter how “weird” that girl’s glasses are, or how “emo” his music is, those kids are people, too. People deserve respect. The horror of today’s society will never fully go away; though it can be decreased, if we stand together to accept others’ flaws.